Homeschooling and Feeling Thankful

I think it is easy to go through daily life without truly being thankful we are for what we have in the moment.  Certainly,  I'm among the many who have taken things for granted.  The exception seems to be when we have experienced loss, suffering, pain, or difficult times for a long duration, and then we find ourselves in a situation which brings relief.

Since we started homeschooling through a K12 school, I can honestly say that even on the "worst" of days, I feel thankful and grateful to have the opportunity.  Sure, we get grumpy sometimes, and on occasion there is a difficult lesson that we're all thrilled to just be done with.  For the most part, though, we enjoy life so much more than we did during those two truly miserable years when Reezle attended our local public elementary school. There are no bullies, no revolting odors wafting in from the cafeteria, no morning (with the exception of state testing days) where the kids have to drag themselves out of bed before they're good and rested, and no crammed evenings of stressful rushing through mountains of homework and bath times.

My dad visited yesterday, and we spent most of the day working in the garage.  Because of our amazingly flexible schooling schedule, the kids were able to work ahead this week and had plenty of time to spend with their Papa.  We had a great time, and enjoyed a pizza picnic in the yard under a tree.

Does this count as art class?

After my dad left, the kids and I decided to take a walk through the woods.  On our way there, the school bus (my daughter's previous assigned bus) drove past us.  At that moment, Reezle and I just looked at each other and smiled.  We were grateful.  So grateful.  Having family time is a priceless gift. 

Walking through the woods

We spent the remainder of our blistering hot (I swear, it felt like 100 degrees outside) late afternoon/early evening in the cool woods beneath the shade of the trees, following trails and making our own, hoping to find some cool frogs.  We didn't find frogs, but we found a lot of happiness and reasons to smile and laugh, and fallen trees to play tightrope on.  And I was grateful.  Nothing in this world makes me happier than spending time with my kids and my dad.

Tree walker Reezle

Homeschooling my children has taught me a lot about being grateful in the moment, about their strengths and my own, and proves to all of us on a daily basis that we are capable of accomplishing anything we set our minds to.  Family is so important, especially to young children.  We don't get these precious years back, and I am thankful beyond words that I get to be more of a part of their young years than I would if they were behind the walls of a brick and mortar school.

As an added bonus, we are doing a more independent and family-centered model of the program this year, and they both have the same contact teacher.  She is amazing, someone who truly cares about the families she is working with, and we feel even more fortunate because we have her.  Yes, we have many, many reasons to be thankful.

Recommended links:
http://www.k12.com
http://www.abcya.com

The 2013-2014 Academic Year Begins

The 2013-2014 school year has begun, and so far I have some very excited little students.  We began our school day at 10AM for the first day because we can.  It will get earlier as the year progresses, but we're transitioning from summer schedules and I believe in gentle transitions.

Checking out some of their new workbooks for the year

Officially, Reezle is in 4th grade and Little G is in 2nd grade.  They are 9 and 7.  Little G is in 3rd grade language arts and math, and has a goal of being moved into 4th grade by his birthday in December.  Reezle was fairly content to stay at grade level last year, but this year she has a goal of moving into 5th grade math and language arts by mid-year.  Both of them are hoping to be invited to our e-school's version of the gifted program again.  Little G was a bit young for the amount of writing they wanted from him last year, as a 6 year-old, but he is ready this year and his writing has improved dramatically over the summer.

For our extra-curricular enrichment, I've decided to skip Scouts for now.  I'm currently researching our local 4-H, since both of my children are very interested in animals and farming.  It seems to have great potential so far.  Reezle wants to get involved in dance at our local arts center, and Little G is considering it.  He watched some boys tap and ballet videos and he thought it was "awesome".  The next couple of months should be very busy for us, since there really is a lot to do here in the fall.  We're excited to be back in a routine.  And somehow, watching that bus go by and not having to be part of that rat race never stops putting a smile on our faces.

Home Gardening

One of the things we love most about summer is our organic garden.  All of us love veggies, and nothing beats fresh ones right out of your very own garden.  This year, we've all taken turns watering, pulling weeds, and carefully picking.  Little G and Reezle both planted flowers along the perimeter and they did a fabulous job.  I was really impressed because it's the first time they've done that without any assistance from us.  With everyone assigned to a task and working together, our planting went quickly. 

Little G waters newly-planted seeds, tomato plants, and flowers

It was a slow summer in terms of garden growth.  Our weather has been strange this year, and we think that the decline in the bee populations isn't helping matters.  But Reezle and I love our zucchini, and once it starts to yield, it's the gift that keeps on giving.  Well, unless you get squash bugs like we did last year.  So this little one was a welcome sight!

Delicious organic zucchini

The other day, Little G asked if he could check the garden to see if any more zucchini had grown large enough to pick.  This is what he found!  Needless to say, we've been eating lots and lots of zucchini!

Little G's proud zucchini harvest

For perspective on how gigantic these bad boys can get, this is Little G holding the zucchini that is in the far right of the picture above.  He said he got his exercise picking these, and he wasn't kidding!

Little G and big zucchini

We're also getting some delicious cucumbers, and the rain over the past couple of days will no doubt move things right along.  No tomatoes or peppers yet, everything is still very green, but hopefully soon.  I wish we could garden year-round, and I've been looking into hydroponics and various greenhouse setups.  Our winters get blistering cold, and stay that way for long periods of time, so I need an option that will be able to withstand occasional sub-zero temperatures without failing.  However, even if I could have an option to extend our growing season so we can start earlier in the spring and continue enjoying fresh produce even after the first frost, I'd be very pleased with that.

Bunny Ball

We played "Bunny Ball" as a family tonight. It was lots of fun, a great PE activity (yes, at 7pm on a Saturday, we can log PE hours!), and also a wonderful sensory diet activity for Little G.


Yes, the Easter Bunny sure scored big points when he put these in the kids' baskets last year. And yes, I intentionally hide my children's faces on my blog. And I always will.

Happy Birthday, Papa!

Happy Birthday to my dad, who celebrates his birthday this weekend.

Finally Friday: Our First Week of Homeschool

We have officially completed our first week of homeschool. I was wondering what this would feel like, and I have to say...it's great. This weekend should be quite enjoyable, as there is no homework to be done and the trepidation I felt going into the first week of school and my first ever week of teaching my children is greatly diminished.

My favorite thing so far, aside from being with my children as they grow and learn, is the academic flexibility. Little G has the opportunity to work on Math, Phonics, and Language Arts from K-2, since he often has his assignments finished before I even get R set up and he joins us for the duration of his sister's lessons. He is also doing Science, Art, and Music, which are not part of his required curriculum but enriching to his experience. I am also mixing subject matter, like adding the Music course tambourine with our continents song as we sing.

The great thing is that learning is everywhere. Nickelodeon presented us with an unexpected history lesson last night with their 9/11 special, What Happened?, geared toward helping younger children (6-14) understand the events of September 11, 2001. It is a 22 1/2-minute program available in full on the Nickelodeon website here. R watched it, though Little G was much more interested in playing a computer game during that time.

On a more personal note, I finally told my grandma Betty, who tends to be kind of "old school" on some (but certainly not all) things, about our decision to homeschool our children. I didn't share my decision with her at all over the past few months, which was difficult because I pretty much share everything with my grandma and really value her input on important decisions. But I was nervous, and didn't know what kind of opinions extended family had of homeschooling or how exactly I would dispell any stereotypes when I had not even begun yet. While I didn't expect my grandmother to be completely against it, I do realize that her perspective is different simply because she was raised and raised her own children in a very different time. For that matter, even my own childhood and education experience was quite different than what my own children face.

To my surprise, there was not even a hint of hesitation, just a lot of encouraging and supportive comments and a few questions of interest. She asked how we all liked it, and thirty minutes had passed before I stopped myself, laughing, to say, "Well, from the fact that I've just run my mouth for thirty straight minutes about it, I guess it's obvious that I love it. We all love it." She said that was quite alright, that she enjoyed hearing about it and that it sounded like we made a really good choice. It meant the world to me to hear that.

And now? I am off to enjoy the weekend with my husband and children.